I know exactly what you are talking about...but from the guy's point of view of course. My girlfriend and I have gone into great debate about this. A few nights of me sleeping on the couch also. I can honestly tell you from my personal knowledge that you really dont have anything to worry about though. I enjoy the appearance of an attractive women, dont get me wrong. But that's all it is...an enjoyable, momentary glance. I know that a girl by my side is priceless when compared to come chick in skimpy clothes on TV.