What makes you so certain of the unequivocal suggestion, "Ah, yes, but remember - God comes to us as we believe Him to be."
If I recall (and you may review our past exchanges for verification), this was NOT my experience AND, I've little doubt, hasn't been the experience of many other NDErs. You are, of course, entitled to your own opinion, but I'd caution anyone from puttin' God in a box called belief.