What do feelings have to do about my comment? There are many times in my life where I haven't got completely satified so I do it on my own, or when there isn't a partner in my life, or just cause I feel like it.. Blue balls might be a guy's term, but a woman can get a buildup of cum too and needs satisfaction.
And if a guy wasn't interested in being teased, why go to stripclubs or buy p 0 r n? Most of us like to get aroused, even if we don't lucky.