You gave out such sound advice about hymens and pain.I am newly married only four months and we were both virgins. So yea before our first time I was scared shootless since he is so super huge.Yet I found out by my GYN my hymen was soft and flexible so my hubby with lots of lube slipped in so deeply with some left out.Yea my hymen broke but without much pain at all. Frankly went into multiple far reaching squirting organisms and recollect no pain.Guess I am so blessed. Love.