bring it to the brink

Every poll since the Crimean War has shown that one of women’s main beefs is that men ejaculate too soon. Experts say most guys reach cllmax in under three minutes (after 30 to 60 thrusts). Most gals require at least seven minutes. Do the math, and give her a few seconds for good measure.The practice most frequently suggested by sex therapists is called the stop-start method, says Mark Schoen, Ph.D., a sex educator and producer of the instructional video You Can Last Longer: Solutions for Ejaculatory Control (Sinclair Institute). You basically rock along until you feel an cllmax rushing on. At that point you freeze, either inside your lover or after you withdraw (she’ll probably feel less bereft if you stay inside). Gain control of your senses. Ask yourself what day it is. Give your penis a moment to cool. Start again. Repeat as needed. Nothing could be simpler. An cllmax, you see, is one part lust, two parts friction. Stop the friction, stop the cllmax. Sam Fields discusses in an article how to improve your sexual performance ability.To get the most out of the stop-start technique, you should endeavor to bring yourself closer to the detonation point each time you do the technique. That way, you’ll learn to read your body’s signals, to monitor your level of excitement, and to nail the exact millisecond you need to stop. Over time, experts say, you’ll be able to come so darn close to ejaculation without actually spilling any seed that you’ll almost think you have. Yet you’ll be able to stay erect and keep on going and going with only an occasional moment’s hesitation (perpetually blissful) like some kind of sexual legend. Tweet