Re: I am a guy, I fantasise about two men and a women-I understand that

I see what you mean 12274. If I considered having S with another woman, she's have to be VERY atractive. I am not so demanding when it comes to men, because I am conditioned to like men. So I forgive a belly or this or that. But if I experimented with another woman she'd have to be perfect like the women on TV and magazines, with no cellulite, no marks, no hair, no smells, no pimples.....and that is damn difficult to find!

I guess the lure of that (I really think you shouldn't do it if you are in a stable loving relationship because it can create big ghosts) is to see another woman enjoying our man-making him seem more interesting to me. As for me and 2 men, it would be the eroticism of seeing them touch each other-something we don't see a lot, and to be the "different" one in the 3some, somehow holding power over not one man but two.

But, again, it's something I'd try only with friends, not with a committed BF, fiance or husband. So that way my relationship wouldn't be threatened. I just cannot imagine sharing my fiance at this point with another woman. I would die with jealousy, especially if she was younger and prettier than me. I would become very upset if my fiance went to a strip club to see all those perfect women, imagine having him kiss and stroke them in front of me!
I really think women who want to bring other women into their marriages if because they DON'T REALLY CARE ABOUT THEIR HUSBANDS ANYMORE AND ARE NOT AFRAID OF LOSING THEM (in case he falls in love with the other woman and they start a hidden afffair-I have heard this can happen). Tweet