I thank you all for the talk. I understand where joshua is coming from, but that's not the problem... I just want to do something that he wouldn't expect me to do to suprise him... that's all. Me being not so brave in bed, **heh** that's almost anything really. I know a few things I can do to spice up oral sex or something like that, but that kinda poses a problem because my mouth isn't really big enough to accomidate him without there be contact with teeth, and i have a very sensitive gag reflex, but i seem to manage with what I can do. I have even thought of games... just anything to make it fun.