Re: husband has 'motorcycle fetish ?!? help!

hi, yes thanks for asking- well this is the label he gave it, and he didn't say much more apart from once after coming back from a ride he said that he was worried that a truck driver had seen him with his penis out, he said he took it out on the side of the road because it all looked so good, to which I understand to have meant his whole motorcycle outfit, and motorcycle and all. He spends alot of time and money in motorcycle shops and off on rides. I asked to come along and he was really reluctant and after he said that the motorcycle didnt respond the same with me on the back of it. He always is stiff when he leaves for his rides and also tends to be a bit of an *%#&¤?§* , ignoring my pleas for him to stay- I admit that i am jealous of and hate this hunk of metal. He says that yes (this nonexistent) sex with me is all wonderful and everything and that his motorcycle lets him feel free and all and that it is 'just another petal of my flower of sexuality' which I find really confusing. As a comment to our sex life (the withered dired up other petal), he is always coming up with an excuses why he cant have sex, like his penis hurts, he is afraid he is hurting me, he is afraid I will get pregnant, blah blah blah, and once, which I think is significant, he finds our sex is like 'chewing cotton'. Can you make anything out of that?