hi frau, i'd like to put my 2 cents in here if you don't mind.

my disection of what your husband said about "cotton balls" is that cotton balls are dry if you were to chew on them among other things. are you using a good lubricant while having intercourse? i think that once you dump this motorcycle hog you might want to keep that in mind with your next man.

i mean, come on........he wants to feel free?? this dude's gotta get in touch with reality, conform to society just a bit and last, but not least GROW UP. sheesh! i know of a few guys who own harleys, sport all the harley garb, like the chaps, leather coats, etc. who have that same "freebird" attitude. they keep saying live and let live, ride on a hog and be one with nature, that's the way to be. they don't seem to want to conform to society or grow up. i used to have a boyfriend who was just like that, and still is, come to think of it, lol. i have really come a long way in regards to growing up and living my life in a very mature fashion since we have been apart. i am much better off now and am VERY thankful he wanted to be free otherwise i may have still been with the guy LOL.

imho, sometimes there just comes a time when you just "grow" out of a hobbie, drugs or partying because of just that, you "grow" up and find other things that are more important for that age period in your life. either that or you cut your hobby down to just an occasional hobby. i'm the type who wants to live and savor every aspect of aging. i wouldn't want to try to be young and seen as young forever. it's too tough to be young, i'm glad i'm not that age anymore.

anyway, to sum up my ramblings here, i think you should think about dumping your man, you deserve much, much more attention than that.

good luck and god bless,

adie