Lack of desire....thyroid
Hello!
The thread was getting kinda long and I got tired of scrolling down so I'm posting up here.
I can kinda relate with the lack of desire post.
At 24 I had my first child. B.C. I had an cllmax every single time and felt highly responsive. A.C. My body just wasn't the same! I wanted sex, but felt like my body just wasn't getting those wonderful tinglies.
Slowly over time I could no longer have an cllmax with penitration!!! How aweful...totally frustrating. To have an cllmax would take self-gratification....and it took FOREVER to get there!
When my son was 4 I found I was hypothyroid....very severe! Not one damn doctor told me that it would/could cause sexual disfunction.
((((Oh I better add that my first husband and I got divorced. Not because of the sex...not even because my body went from attractive to morbidly obese....He is a chubby chaser and remarried a woman as large as I am! We got divorced cause I'm a "home" type person and he is a "casino" type guy...still great friends btw.)))
MT Dew if you insult me then my ex and my hubby -to -be will come and beat you up!...so nanner nanner nanner! Where are the smiley face inserts when you need them?
So for the past 9 years and a couple...well maybe more than two..."blush" (safe sex people!) guys later I just figured that it was a psychological thingy caused from the trauma of divorce and lack of trust stuff. You know how it goes!
BUT THEN...
I met this wonderful guy...we had a daughter....we have a great house and a nice life...my son is happy....total trust all around! The sex??? Great if I could just have a damn cllmax!!!
I take 200mcg of synthroid and still feel like crap. So we got this computer at Xmas and I've been searching and reading....I found Tropical Traditions and ordered my first (of many I'm sure)VCO. Started to replace all oils with it and include it as a supliment every day.
Well, It's been less than a month of use but, yesterday when my sweety and I made love....I felt sensations that I hadn't felt since I was 23!!! I'm 37 now. I didn't have an cllmax ,BUT. Those sensations give me hope that I'll get my groove back!!!!!!
Also Dew Little....I've always been the aggressor in the bedroom even if I didn't get a final "reward"!
I know a
Liver Flush will be next as soon as I get up the nerve. I had my very sick gall bladder removed in '95...Lots of toxins to get ride of! Btw I switched to all natural toothpaste w/o the flouride and all natural deoderant too...Cooking and baking from scratch as much as possible for the family as well. Having the old filling replaced in my teeth is gonna take some $$!
So if there seem to be no emotional reasons for lack of tinglies and cllmaxic rewards...then look to the physical...suspect the thyroid...especially since the use of soybeans in just about every damn product on the shelves these days!
Hey??? What's the corellation between increased obesity in America and soybean and soybean bi-products useage???
Sorry about the little cuss words and such..I've got my nickers in a bunch!
Later I'm sure
Sally