the facials (since the thread has gone a whoel differetn way)

as a woman , my personal thoguhts are...
what happnes in teh privacy of tow carign lovign adults shoudl stay there... who gives a darn wha tothers thinnk
privacy and zippe dlips keeps the trust and intimacey
as being soem thign only you both share.
as far as i see it if niehter of you find it offensive (anythign you do, ) and it is not hurting or degradign teh other person/ than jstu enjoy.
BUT youare concerned why you gal won't when youwnat to
well you agreed to be with her/
so youare goign to hav eto comunicate a bi tbette ror compromise... if she doesn 't wan tto and you try to ge ther to anyhow... sh ewill gro wto resent it even more and feel liek youdon't caare bout her feeligns / jstu to try and get your needs or fantasy served.
remember jstu cau seit is yOUR fantasy dooes not amke it hers..
and there was nothin in vows that sai d.. i will fulfill allhis fantasoes wheter i wan tot or not.
the lady taht posted way down there had soem exceellent points.. mayb eit is cause she don't wan tit on her personal nice pillow/ she doesn 't wna tit stinking in her hair.. youget to roll ove r and go to sleep all nice and claen ana dhappy...
sh ehas to either get up and wash her hair or smellit allnight and smell liek tat even worse itn eh morning.....
maybe youcould se eif sh ewas willing in a shared tub bath ? and you wash her hair after?

anyhow .. best to you in slovign your problem
hope youboth reach a happy compromise.
ps i hope you not tha ti di dnto giv emy opinion at all..
except to say what goe son behind close ddoors shoudl always be in agreemetn with each other and notpercived as abusive demeanign et cby either of you ... if she fidn s it demeaning then you hav eto respect ehr wishes unless youwan tto drive her away...