All possible reasons with regards to lackluster sex drive points to a lot of things from medical to psychological lest he or she has the reason or another to act or feel that way.
Another good reason is the talk and listen relationship.
But mind if I noticed that nobody touches on the issue of being sexually attractive to his or her partner. Being “turny- ons” when your in bed, I mean. Set aside those anxieties when you’re intimately “on” for a moment please.
We may admit or experience though that there are times (not only once or thrice or many times) that you may feel ‘off’ to you partner, but experiencing a lot of ‘off nights’ is another story I guezz!