Re: the value of original virginity lostnow

I have to disagree, totally. The knowledge of any subject only enhances. Say I had married and the man of my first serious relationship, I would be a drunk, married to an illiterate, whom abused his children and wife. My second choice wasn't much better. It wasn't until I moved far away from all my previous ties that I started to develope mentally and spiritually. Some are able to be comfortable in the birth place. Others of us go on the journey, a right of passage so to speak. My sister did what you spoke of, my family gave her so muchcredit for all her decisions. Only to find that after the birth of her first, things came apart quickly. I gave birth then married , my husband and I are one of the best teams I have ever seen. All paths need to be different. We are all here to learn, all here to find oneself. The journey can't be the same in a word of infinate possibilities. By the way that first man, lasted four years, compatable sexually, way off creatively and intellectually. Many others to follow in various combinations. My husband is well matched on most levels. Had to travel 2,300 plus miles and many hardships to meet him. All well worth the trip, A.