Re: I DO AGREE.... and more
I also think it is a matter of respect, a married woman should act/be like a nun to every man but her hsb, I do not like nor understand those mommies that hang around with baby in stroller wearing super-low-waist jeans or minimal tops/skirts, ev erybody can see they are trying to attract men and this sounds pretty weird to me, why did they marry then? ANd how can their hsb accept that? the answer is, hsb is probably acting the same way somewhere else, but the whole thing is quite insane. I do not believe to the "family of heart", it's just a big business, having 3 or 4 different families means that spending a lot of money and getting more and more confused about what love/care/responsability is.
nowadays one tends to believe that love just HAPPENS, and then happens to be over the same way, like magic. they do not fight for it! they just give up and go for the next.
of course this is very practical to THEM, making families break down an individuals wander in confusion with no more steady lives/jobs/loved ones, alone with their loneliness burden and ready to be exploitated in 1000 ways .
these are my thoughts. I do respect muslims for what they do, even in Iraq thy just try to defend their poor but decent way of life. I do not believe that our Western Culture has much to offer to them, should muslim girls pay their bikini with loss of balance and identity? I do not believe in the "be selfish/have fun" way of life, it's just %¤#&!§-to make people more and more desperate. So I think.