When I was going through a Pluto transit (like you are now Pluto on your Moon - in the dream house - 12th) I had some Rage dreams...man o man they were crazy! I was the absolute embodiment of Rage...a HUGE force coming through me - totally powerful and freaky! yikes. I always thought: well - good thing I get it out in my dreams! woah.
The orgam thing - oh they're real allright! (and....no hands! ha - just that I'm always amazed...my arms are all stretched out when I awake and I think...how the....?) Anyway...this ain't the Sex Forum - but oh well. But, yeah, they are real real real. (did I say that already? heehee) I never actually have penetration in a dream....it's usually a bit different (not telling). So..there ya' go - girls have 'wet dreams' of sorts too!
I remember my last boyfriend (actually born maybe, um, one month after you - same year) always complained...he'd never had a wet dream. Poor guy. He always wanted one...