Tracey
Yemaya...that is a very interesting observation.
I would have to ask you...in real life do you feel like you deserve the 'good stuff'? Do you believe that it can happen...in your life...NOW? Know what I mean?
Not that it 'will happen' one day....but it can happen right now. Good stuff.
It is something to think about...
(*work towards that orgasm while you're sleeping! That happens to me occasionally and, whew, feels like a little present!)
love T
PS: ooops, almost forgot - if some of the 'good stuff' you're talking about is sex-related in your dreams that is showing that you're not quite loving your Self enough! Or not allowing yourself to love your Self. Sex in dreams (if it's the right kind!/atmosphere etc) are often very healing AND a sign that one is accepting, loving, and healing themselves... Remember what the NDE guy said: Have a Love Affair with your SELF! That is the most important thing you could do!
oooooox