Wren, ok, I can see I interrupted this thread and I am not welcome. I am Sorry for that...and for the negativeity I created here.
looking forwards, just go ahead and do exactly what I said you would do which is to cuddle yourselves and pat each other on the back for maintaining allegiance to your favorite drug, god.
Don't look up, down, or around you to check and see other ways to view things...
...it will just invite growth, "becoming", and evolution on the simplest scale of learning stuff.
Even just learning of other's views - views that you don't have to use yourself - is a good thing. As for me, I feel shut out altogether, I guess it is my harsh ways...