PTtogether has given you some excellent advice which I won't repeat here. One thing I want to mention, though, is that Asthma has a major psychological factor to it that is usually related to old grief, usually not from this lifetime. If she is open to it, either my wife Lillian or I, or both of us could help her with clearing this up with and for her (see my website, bottom right for Lillian, and Sacred Santemony).