Husband

Dear Andreas,

What is your view on p 0 r n o g r a p h y? I have mixed view but view it as somewhat degrading to woman. My question has to do with my husband, he's been looking at p 0 r n o g r a p h y since he was a teen -20 or more years. He has know started using the computer as an outlet with makes it much easier to access than before computers. Anyway, we've been together for over 10 years and it's bothering me. When I've confronted him, he saids it's normal for men and most men do look at p 0 r n o g r a p h y and if I have a problem with it, it's my own insecurities. He's also gives me conflicting information and saids he hasn't had much of a sex drive recently when I show interest. I've recently tried to renew our marriage, spending more time with him, sharing our hobbies.

He's also said it's easier to look at nudes/p 0 r n than make love. I guess this is the part that bothers me so much, we make love every once in a while but it seems as if he has a preference for looking at nudes/p 0 r n than being/looking at me. I would certainly like to make love with him more, but it doesn't seem as he wants to do this.
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