You may be better off not making his problems your own. He is responsible for his unhappiness and lack of compassion, not you. It is easy to play the victim, but not useful for you. Take responsibility for what is happening to you and make the best of of it. If it doesn''t work out the way you plant it, is is for your own good, although this may be difficult to see at first. Difficulties are intertwined with blessings. Look for the good things in every situation, especially the bad ones, and don't get deluded by the superfical appearances.