Spiritual life, and practical life.
Hi
I found out last Thursday that my adviser has given the project I have been working on for my dissertation to other person without telling me anything at all.
I was completely shocked.
I do not know what to think about this.
what I felt:
He does not believe I am capable to do a quality work and he gave it to another person, without telling me.
However when we talk, he is always polite and ussually does not give me feedback that something is wrong. Just one he told me that I was procrastinating even though I had told him I was sick.
I have had lately hard time talking to him, he is always very busy and he does not concentrate in what I am telling him. SOmetimes I feel he his avoiding me.
I do not know what to think about him, or what I need to do. During the summer I had difficulties with my concentration and I was very tired all the time and I did not make progress. I thought I needed to be honest and I told him about my concentration/focus problems, my tiredness and other healht concerns.
Since September, I have been feeling better and working with determination to do a quality work and finish and graduate.
It seems to me now that the fact I told him my concerns and my health problems backfired.
I do not know what to think or what to do. I have been working on my PhD for almost 4 years, I am almost there but it is important my adviser accepts my work as good for graduation.
I feel that I cannot communicate well with him, it is like he does not understand what I am talking about and he makes judgments that I am just procrastinating. I feel very uncomfortable talking to him, sometimes very nervous.
Any ideas?
Love
Zule
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Spiritual life, and practical life.
Hi
I found out last Thursday that my adviser has given the project I have been working on for my dissertation to other person without telling me anything at all.
I was completely shocked.
I do not know what to think about this.
what I felt:
He does not believe I am capable to do a quality work and he gave it to another person, without telling me.
However when we talk, he is always polite and ussually does not give me feedback that something is wrong. Just one he told me that I was procrastinating even thou I havetold him I was sick.
I have had lately hard time talking to him, he is always very busy and he does not concentrate in what I am telling him. SOmetimes I feel he his avoiding me.
I do not know what to think about him, or what I need to do. During the summer I had difficulties with my concentration and I was very tired all the time and I did not make progress. I thought I needed to be honest and I told him about my concentration/focus probelms, my tiredness and other heatlh concerns.
Since September, I have been feeling better and working with determination to do a quality work and finish and graduate.
It seems to me now that the fact I told him my concerns and my health problems backfired.
I do not know what to think or what to do. I have been working on my PhD for almost 4 years, I am almost there but it is important my adviser accepts my work as good for graduation.
I feel that I cannot communicate well with him, it is like he does not understand what I am talking about and he makes judgments that I am just procrastinating.
Any ideas?
Love
Zule