Re: Getting involved with somebody if they are separated...

I do just want to point out that I am NOT considering marrying this man!! So he wouldn't be having me as a 2nd wife at one time. But probably nipping it in the bud, or not even getting started is the best thing to do because who knows where it could lead. But marry him or not, I think it is the whole PRINCIPLE of the matter.
A friend of a friend of mine thought we would be a good match for each other. He is staying as a roommate with this friend of a friend of mine (she is a female - just has 2 guys as roommates). And my friend knows how I feel about such matters. I have NEVER been involved with a married man in my entire life. When I try to point out that he is still married, I get varying answers. Well, it's not going anywhere, been separated for 2 years, etc, etc, etc. We've emailed, talked on the phone, gotten together for coffee, & then gotten together with our mutual friends. Sometimes I guess I can't understand why some people don't see things the way I do (my friends, acquaintances, etc.) In other words, what I'm getting back sometimes is that it's no big deal. And yes, thank you to whoever wrote that I am seeking group council, & not the authority of one man. I am talking to God about this, also. But it doesn't hurt to get feedback.