Thanks for the feedback. I do pray to God to help me to not be judgemental. I need to work more on being a friend and listening, just be objective I suppose, & know that this particular situation is really between her & God. I just believe there are reasons for the truths & principles in the Bible, & while I don't always know exactly why they are there, I do believe that sometimes some of the principles to live by keep God's children safe & from being hurt. I care about her, I just need God's help in knowing how to care, & just be there, & be understanding.