the sin would be IF your lifestyle prevents you from doing gods will. concentrate on doing what jesus says and he will take care of everything else. god does not see things the way this man does. and one of the things he expects is for us to be men of our word. and he expects us to be careful what we commit to, because we are to pay, even if it is to our own hurt. read the red letters! and let him speak to you. forget the rest of it. he will guide you, i know he will. it is never wrong to do good. it is never wrong to be love. it is never wrong to treat others the way we ourselves want to be treated.