Quietly submit to your husband and folow his lead. Eph 5:22,24, Col 3:18, 1Pet 3:1. God has grace heaped upon grace for you to follow your husbands lead. Just keep looking unto Jesus the Author and Completor of our Faith. You are in His perfect plan ordained in eternity past, you have a great opportunity to draw near and know Christ, the object of our being, He is in control of all things (even the devil) nothing gets by His notice. He waits for your attention. His grace is Sufficient.