Did anyone of you know any guy never got Herpes from the lady? Though my current boyfriend never mentioned he will marry me nor have sex with me, I know emotionally he likes me. I am the one always checking if he will leave me, but this guy is so weak, and will say it is time for him to go home and not answering my question whenever I talk about this. Then, the next day, he will call me out for lunch again, but never really talk about if he will marry me, or even he is ready for the special sex life we have if he marries me. However, when I see he doesn't even know how to wash his hands properly, I am afraid that he might one day got Herpes from me. Any comment. If I have to be single for the rest of my life, I might have to, as it hurts me to see I infected another person. Or the infected victim reinfected me. Moreover, he is the only male child in the family, that I felt sorry for his family who valued this child the most ( Some Asian family valued male child more than female child, and had put thru' the best just for the male child).