hey dont jump to conclusions just yet .. it could be allsorts. It does not sound like the typical way that herpes presents. seriously, yu may not have it. I know what you mean about prefer not to know. Ignorance is bliss. Still if it is it it sounds like your symptoms are pretty minor. I know this may not seem like much but some people go through the most amount of pain which makes it harder to cope with. Ill send a wish out for you that it is not it. Can you talk to anyone about this?