EMOTIONALLY DISTRAUGHT - Need Advice

My recent boyfriend has not been exclusive as we started out. When I met him, he showed me his doctors report on being free of STD's and HIV.

Since I had been celibate for approximately 3yrs and allergic to Latex and Nonoxyl-9 spermacide, I had been extremely careful and not active.

When I told him I had vaginal odor and inquired if he has been faithful, he confessed to sleeping with his ex-wife at the beginning of our relationship and that he will never do that again.

While listening to a show on the Radio about HIV and STD's, I inquired if he has ever come in contact with Herpes 2 and he stated yes.

I was so devastated that I blasted him out badly...he was so nonchalant about the whole matter that he hung up the phone when he said I acted like he had the cooties...I told him he did and should have given me the choice if I wanted to be sexual with him or not.

Some may say he was honest when asked, but I feel he was dishonest by his actions of cheating and very dishonest about not telling me he was infected (without symptoms) for 2 years.

I'm so hurt.

I went to the doctors today and tested for EVERYTHING (all STD's and HIV). The doctor took samples for std's and blood for syphillis and HIV.

My last sexual relation was 5/15 and the testing 5/20.

I understand he can shed being asymptomatic. I do NOT have any symptoms, but I am not in the clear.

His attitude sucks in this matter and he believes he doesn't have it anymore. I sent him literature indicating he doesn't need an outbreak to pass it along.

I Pray I am Free of this...and I will leave him. I can't TRUST anyone who kisses and doesn't tell until they ask.

He gave me the choice of a Life Sentence! This is criminal