You are not saved until you have this love type (Agape) not having it is the OLNY sin God is concerned with because it is the cause of all the other little sins. Even after you receive Agape you will continue to sin as the flesh will rise up with this new love type having taken up residence. But has what is called a purging process and thats when He will clean up your act, which is what most christians try to do at the front end without much success.