Man had it but lost it, the love we have is not the love required. It only comes by bestowment 1John 3:1. Jesus Christ even told the Jews they didn't love John 5:49 so if they didn't we don't either. He didn't write a second gospel for gentiles and God is no respector of persons meaning we are all the same.
You can be a christian, be in the body of Christ/church and still be headed into eternal ruin because you are lacking one thing as was the rich young ruler. THE RIGHT LOVE TYPE! Please read that whole article