you say "i don't judge, i don't cast stones, i don't this and i don't that"
super, that whay NEARLY ALL of your posts are about!!!
two things
1. you are totally unaware of your own arrogance and how insulting it is to everyone else.
2. you odn't know what it means not to judge someone.
thank you for saying you are a new christian, that explains a little. please ask God to help you with this whole judging thing. its clear you have not a walked a mile in the moccasins of those who have suffered in this life, i can't help but feel that people like you should suffer a bit, it would do you a world of good.