I'm filling out a living will, I am giving my spouse guardianship rights. He is my best friend. Plus, after all this fiasco with Terri, I don't trust my parents be emotionally reomoved enough to "pull the plug" as soon as I would like. My number two is my step-mother. She has the same feeling about life prolonging machines as I do. We have discussed this very circumstance on many occasions. I am not afraid of death. I am afraid of ending up like Terri.