Re: want to revenge, should I ?
I don't remember the movie, but my little sister has said it to me more than once- When you seek and act out on revenge you are making them a 'unit'- they only get closer
- she usually tells me this after I email his girlfriend the dates that he didn't show up for his kids (thank God you don't have that to worry about) or that he bounced checks for them the day they spent $200.00 on an evening out with friends (eating steak and beer- gee, why didn't that relationship work? Yuck!).
And, my little sister was right. That repugnant man and his equally odious girlfriend will show up after not seeing the kids for 6 weeks and pretend to like them-- If he didn't leave her to see them for 6 weeks-then he didn't see them, right???
Point is: THEY DESERVE EACH OTHER!!!! Bottom feeders will always stick together- get out while you can- Feng shui, crystals, voodoo, meditate -- it is so unhealthy (and unattractive and can drive people away). I know it is easier said than done, but visualize your world with all positive loving people in it and you will see, that he just doesn't belong.
Good Luck-
Don't you wish you could tattoo one word on their foreheads that expained WHAT they were- to the unsuspecting- so they didn't get to walk around looking like everyone else when they are really hurtful/souless human beings?