Re: should i wait for him or move on?

I shared the exact the same feeling with you, when you said you felt insecure and lonely and unloved. I also ahev the same need as you do, to have a proper and commited relationship. It seems that you know there is something wrong about the current relationship but in the mean time, it is so hard to pull yourself out because you already invest your emotion in. What I felt from your letter was this man is not the right man. From my painful experience, you guys get together seem with the wrong reason. He is in reboucing and you are in need of companionship.

What I have learn is rather to be lonely but needy. Be emotional independent is so important for a woman nowsdays. Marture and dependable men are so rare. " Boys are imature, guys are jerks and men are rare. "

It is hard to do when you have family. When lonely, seeks comfort from friends and relatives is better. Don't get back to what you already know no happy ending relationship at this moment. He is not certain about you and himself right now. When he is settle about himslef, clear his mind, he will either leave you or come back to you. If he haven't done anything wrong to you but just in transition, and you really really in love with him, do give him sometimes to recover and leave some distance and space.

Thanks for your reply to my email and this is just my 2 cent of thought by reading your message. One need to be very careful with the relationship issue, particular us women who is made of 70% water with soft and tender heart. We need to learn how to protect and be rationalize the situation. Sink or swim it is all our choice.

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