Re: Relationship Problem

Good luck Snake;
Unfortunately you are like a lot of us good hearted honest dependable guys out here. I have been through some real tough break ups, and the only thing you can do is wish her well,and offer her the opportunity to come back when or if she should feel ready for your genuine attention and interest in her. I have recently fallen for a girl that I have only known for a couple months. She is still in love with someone else, and she is trying to move on from him. He calls her daily, up until two weeks ago when she had given him one choice" get back to where they were six months ago, or that she had a couple of guys that wanted to date her." Now I am in too deep, and she keeps her self away most of the week, and has started changing on me, less calls at night, and when I call her, her phone is off. These women need time and space to find themselves. Unfortunately, we walk in at the wrong time, and are subject to being hurt, and left behind. All I can say is that I feel a chill with my girl, and I have to break my pattern of getting involved with emotionally damaged women. They find me, and my attention gets thier interest. I have found that I am a great security blanket, and when they finally get all warmed up, they take me off and move on. Remember that there really is a right one out there for you. Learn to play it safe with your emotional contact. Ask more women out, and don't stay home by the phone. I am still with my girl, though I feel a chill in the air and am starting to wonder if she has allready started with someone new while with me. I am holding off on asking her, fearing that she will say I am pushing her, and then she will end us. I am keeping my eyes open, and if she is hooking up, again, I will have let my self get hurt. Good luck setting her free....... Tweet