NARTH and EXODUS will guide you to emotional stability.
People aren't born with homosexual inclinations, they are created by: 1. Emotionally distant same-gender parent; 2. Aggravating factor of childhood molestation. Dr. Nicolosi's group NARTH, and the para-professional support group, EXODUS INTERNATIONAL, will bring you to recognize that this is a reactionary sexuality, not something inherent in your being. You need to get out of the comfort zone and find the REAL you. Frankly, it's no trick to find sexual satisfaction of someone raised with the same set of genitals, as Jerry Seinfeld notes.
But this is a bottomless pit because you are acting out of a need to have an emotional bond with a significant male. Quit reinforcing this fake ego identity. You were emotionally starved, and possibly abused. Fix that, don't paper it over with a little drugs, sex, and cheap thrills to keep you away from seeing the true state of your being. Another great discipline is:
http://www.fhu.com with their "Observation Meditation." This brings out all the hidden resentments that act as emotional drivers for our intemperate behavior. Control the soul, the body obeys. Get whole.