Re: My girl is upset with me!
Ive had the same trouble so your not alone.
It got to such a stage that i was accused of cheating on her in the time it took for her to go to the toilets in the club to when she came back.
I was approached by a young lady (cant remember what she looked like as i was drunk in a bad mood), she asked if i was okay and i said i was fine and im just waiting for my girlfriend, according to my girlfriend this woman grabbed my hand, i was obvlious to this and so i was asked what this woman wanted and so i told my girlfriend but she didnt believe me so i walked off.
Even though i wasnt even interested in this woman.
The funny thing about it was that she was sort of blaming me because women were eyeing me up. Laugh? i nearly bought a round.
We made up in the end yadda yadda ya.
I tried reverse psychology on her once and it worked ever so well.
Ive caught her looking at blokes (even though she says she doesnt look when she goes out etc), so i looked at a girl in the gym once and my girlfriend was moaning and how insecure and paranoid it made her feel.
So i said 'how do you think it makes me feel?'.
Theres that solution but it could backfire.
Its natural to look at others. As long as you dont touch.
So your wife is saying she doesnt have an odd glance at a fella?
You could let her gouge your eyes out then she cant accuse you of looking? Ok that wasnt very helpful.
Maybe something happened in her past?
I notice your getting a bit discouraged and i understand fully.
Do you tell her you love her etc? Leave little notes/letters around the house for her saying how much you think of her?
You cant help but look, its impossible.
I was talking to a girl i know, next thing i get text messages asking who im chatting up etc (she was working near me). She said she was winding me up by asking but on current affairs i dont know.
Keep telling her your feelings for her. Its impossible to avoid your eyes going anywhere evne if your not looking.
I dont think theres a lot more you can do apart from get her to open up to you.