Re: please read and help me!!!!!!!!!
Ive have had the same worries (about my girlfriend).
I know she goes out and gets plastered at times and it does worry me what she gets upto.
Im get scared that shes going to cheat on me, but there is no point fretting about it. As you will get more paranoid and insecure about the issue.
In fact ive just text my girlfriend and asked her if she wanted to split up? Why? Cause i thought she had the major hump with me and when she text me just, her attitude in them was wrong.
And i was already pissed off as it is, so she text me back and said she still wants me and she said im stupid for thinking what i thought.
DONT let it get as far as i have.
Does he tell you hes not going to cheat on you?
Has he cheated on you before?
Everyone is different to each other.
Just because your ex's cheated on you, it doesnt mean your fiancee is.
We all go back to our past experiences, i have, my girlfriend has, it nearly broke us up 3 times in the past two weeks.
But we reassure each other.
Maybe you need him to tell you that he wouldnt cheat on you, would that make you happy?
Does he look at other women?
You need to be able to trust him when he goes out.
I have difficulty sometimes trusting, as my ex pulled a bloke in front of my face. Im trying hard and i have almost given up at times.
Why dont you tag along to the bars with him and see what it is all about?
Do you drink?
Does he think you would cheat on him if you had the chance?
It is hard though, i understand what your going through.
My girlfriend has just text me saying shes going to get f****d (drinkwise) again, now my mind started to spin, shes going to her cousins party and i worry she will go off with someone else.
But you just have to trust. Theres no point fretting over it, its just in your mind.
You cant bottle stuff up, but its trying to think of how to start the conversation.