Re: What do I do?

Hello, fellow harbinger of wisdom (poet),

Take that minor exaggeration with a grain of salt (sea salt, of course). What I mean is that poets are supposed to be able to see deeply into humanity (there are always distractions that get in the way). Think about this...You both sound like beautiful people, because of what she said about you and the way you speak about her. She said that she has had SERIOUS relationships where she fell "HARD" and you treat her BETTER than the others and are the "PERFECT GUY". It's not just the way you talk about her that gives me the idea that she is also an exceptional person, it's that it takes an exceptional person to PROPERLY appreciate an exceptional person and not take advantage of them, and she sure isn't taking advantage of you, she struck GOLD when she met you, someone with a heart of gold, the heart of a poet. All modesty aside, you gotta realize that your good qualities are VERY good and are very IMPOSING. She said you make her feel guilty. Okay, she made some mistakes when she was younger...she slept with married men. I'm not saying that you hold this against her, I'm saying that her CONSCIENCE does and that having someone as good as you...subconsciously, makes her feel "out of place", and unworthy. Next time you see her, do something really stupid and clumsy, and then FEEL REALLY BAD and seek her forgiveness (and she will of course, forgive you). And for that, she will feel better about herself. Don't let on. I know it can be seen as sneaky, but you will be doing it because you really care (The truest hero is a secret one). I'm not a professional, but I have done things like this, it takes a kind of self-sacrifice because you have to compromise your principles. But DON't do it until you are fully convinced that you should, otherwise you might have regrets.

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