Re: Please help me! I want to last longer for my gf!
Soulful is correct that p 0 r n is affecting the brain.
I will add my own experience to your problem. Your goal should not be lasting longer. You can pound it for hours & she will not ogasm.
Your goal should be to give your GF a GOOD clitoral ogasms. THAT is what she wants more than anything. This is not easy to do, and takes a great deal of patience. She cannot fake a real ogasm. Her back will arch, she will shake & scream with delight. Oral sex will usually not do it. Intercourse will not usually do it, no matter how long you last. I suggest that you use a good lubricant on her clit, like SYLK. This may take 15 minutes to 1/2 hour to really get her off, and practice makes perfect.
Also you will become naturally less sensitive with experience. After several years of experience your new problem will be not sensitive enough to reach c1imax.
One last thing, it is perfectly normal for a young man new to sex to c1imax too soon. So stop worrying. As I said your job #1 is to give her a clitoral ogasm. After that, she won't care how long you last.
More details in this help document for young men:
https://docs.google.com/document/d/12IvB2EvNCzlEanu1bI8ei3ZldtdolGKPlRWZslBY5KM/edit#heading=h.tfgr8uw0t0vl
Best to you & your love life,
Grizz