Robert C an engineer and physicist who was partially disabled by chronic fatigue, etc in his early 40s but was back at work in his nice job roughly a year after getting rid of the silver Amalgam fillings and starting detox. http://onibasu.com/archives/am/84889.html
People as sick as you often start with just 5mg doses of DMPS every 6 hrs around the clock for a long weekend along with generous antioxidants, zinc, magnesium, etc.
With your symptoms you won't want to skimp on Mg, including Mg sulfate--Epsom Salt. Also learn about adrenal cortex support and amino acids that have a calming effect such as glutamine and GABA.
Detox is not a quick fix; however getting the right combo of supporting supplements, diet and maybe some medication can have a substantial positive effect in the short term. They were for a close female friend who had an almost identical list of symptoms.
So much more could be said! There are detox support groups here, at Yahoo and FB.