I don't know where to turn and I'm in need of direction, I'm losing hope...something is eating me alive.

For nearly a year I have been suffering from an itchy rash that starts at my feet and works its way up my legs, fingertips arms shoulders chest upper back, FACE , including my mouth ears and scalp. I am finding these tiny white things all over my house as well as where I have the rash, with a couple disgusting additions...my mouth nose, eyes and ear canals. The cycle starts with the rash, sore throat, occasional dry cough, intense earaches and intermittent stomach issues. When the rash is full blown I suffer from fatigue, balance and coordination problems and memory loss. I sometimes stagger like I'm drunk, frequently fall and the worste is that I do crazy things I have no memory of, I find shopping bags full of strange stuff I have no memory of buying among other strange things. My right eye has begun to wander to the far right when I'm looking straight at someone, I have pics of crazy eye. I'm also suffering from extreme double vision and my sight is clouded like I'm wearing dark shades, these too are intermitten but becoming more frequent for longer periods. My kids are scared, I'm beginning to get depressed. My husband is on active duty in the military and this began after he came home from overseas and became an obvious problem after he left again on another deployment, he was only home a few months. He just got back only to find a wife he doesn't recognize. He's worried because he sees Exactly what's on me and coming out of me and angry because I've been to 5 doctors, including infectious disease and each without hardly looking at me Agreed with my PCM, I'm simply delusional. My pcm did however say I was anemic. I've been through 3 cycles of the rash, sore throat, earache, fatigue etc including coughing up mucus with what appears to be wormy like larvae, I guess? This happens for only a couple of days and stops. My nails have white/translucent wormlike things under and around them, I find tiny larvae like things all over, worms come out of my nose mouth and sores. Yet the craziest thing are these hairlike things that move. I've made videos, pic diary, etc and kept some in a baggie and NOT one Dr will even use a magnifying glass much less really look at them. Why is this happening to me? I've aged 10 years in 10 months, I'm skin and bones, dark circles under my eyes, even strangers can tell I'm sick. Who can I go to in Va that knows bugs? My kids are scared my big strong soldier feels helpless, angry and worried....Please help me for them... I don't know where to turn for help....the Army is not going to do another thing for me with this issue even though not one Dr wanted a follow up apt, once was it, except the eye Dr he had to prescribe special glasses to pull my eyes back together, he and my dentist both seem concerned but helpless.. I hate going to the doctor and have avoided it for several years, now, after the way I've been treated I have near panic attacks when my husbands suggests going back to my pcm so he can advocate for me. There has to be a bug specialist somewhere in Virginia or DC.Thank you for taking time to read this.