"so here i am. you should be asking me, not telling me. its your loss."
lol Oh, the arrogance! :)
You made a false statement. I showed you where you were wrong. It's okay. It happens to all of us. Man up and admit you can make mistakes like all of us can.
Better yet, turn to Jesus, realize He is the only perfect righteousness anyone can have, and find freedom from this idea that you are going to be perfect yourself, because I think that's why you seem to never be able to admit mistakes or even, dare I say, SINS on your part. And that also seems to be why you major on pointing your finger at everyone else. Take a look in the mirror, it may do you good! Read the Sermon on the Mount. Really read it and see how you yourself fall short, instead of noticing how everyone else does.