Oh I know you well too and sometimes you post on Trap's forum. Basically you are an ok chap.
I think it is good to love and it is good not to debate. Christians turn the other cheek, not attack so much.
What did she accomplish but another long thread moaning and crying and then what happens, she is still here for the next long thread where she hates the mod, hates the webbie or even hates herself with her miserable divorce and life.
Go on and worship God the way it is suppose to be. Debates are not just for Christians but yes a Christian for 40 years. Was Baptized at the age of 9.
So my friend a true Christian is not suspicious, does not spy and most certainly does not complain other than to God as he is the most merciful.
As for you guys getting nicer? Naaaa, You guys love love to debate.