You are right, of course, but sometimes people have truth in their opinions that help others see things that are truth. That is what I meant. In the end I may learn from someone's opinion, but I should not let it rule me and I won't. Neither will you. When I wrote that I did not think I was being offensive so I'm glad you did not take it that way. Apparently, someone did find it offensive to the point that she wanted to defend you. That made me think I must not have stated things right. Truth is what is important.