Thank you,
I am actually not sure what help I am looking for from this forum. I have done research and I am sure that removing the device is best for us.
She made the appointment for next week and I am nervous that she will experience bad side affects after removing it. I will have to own this decision good or bad. Either way she will go through the same experience sooner or later so removing it is still the right thing to do.
Thank you for your kind words, I will post again later to give an update with our experience.