Check him for Lyme disease , google Lyme disease and symptoms in children . He has all the traits. I have it and it was passed to my kids. Lyme causes, autism, aspergers, Add, ADHD. Focus and momery problem..ect. Lyme is and epidemic. 300,000 people alone are getting un diagnosed a year. The Elisa test is only 20% accurate get the western blot through IgeneX lab. Google IgeneX .