First off, I feel your pain and suffering. It is terrible to go through life like that. But thankfully there is now good info on how to recover! I am mostly recovered and feeling great. Rather than re-invent the wheel and spend the day typing out recommendations, I recommend two books that explain how I got over this:
1. "Adrenal Fatigue Syndrome" by Dr. Lam -http://www.amazon.com/Adrenal-Fatigue-Syndrome-Vitality-Clinically/dp/1937930009