Yeah that's the difference between you and me. My skin is so delicate that if I even rub ever so gently, the build up will peel off.
I pretty much have to squeeze a glob of Aquaphor on my fingertips and then I have to dab it on really really really gently.
I have no idea what stage of healing I'm in right now but the layer of skin is so thin that I cannot keep it on through the day. Like if I just touch it with my finger gently, it will end up on my finger...