I informed her that she is a text book example of a narcissist surrounding herself with useful idiots. Her true colors only come out when she is finished using someone.
I met two of these useful idiots who came by her house one evening. They were effeminate boot licks from her sailing club that stopped by to adore her and see if they could be of any service. If they weren't gay sure could have fooled me, they weren't real men, perhaps just wannabes that have been chemically poisoned into a shadow of their former selves.